How Is Your Fat Helping You?

Here in America, we've gone obsessively crazy over the rage of weight loss product sellers who have convinced us that fat is not our friend. Well, it's my friend. I'm earning my way into enlightenment with it and I hope you will think of leaving the Church of Weight Loss and join me.

In the Church of Weight Loss, one is absolutely not sanctified without six-pack abs, non-jiggling thighs, high and tight buns of steel, a mandated percentage of body fat, the right lift to one's eyelids and one's boobs, and the wearing of only specified sizes. It makes me absolutely sick to think about it.

If I am fat or worse yet (as in Mortal Sin) I am obese, and I try to adhere to the Church of Weight loss, I become my own harshest critic about my fat. It becomes a way for me to continue to think poorly of myself, to denigrate my godliness.

What is the good in being fat?

* It keeps me warm.

* It permits me to enjoy loving "the roundness" vs. seeing flat, which I don't admire.

* It give me big boobs.

* It lets me feel okay about talking brashly about truth

* It makes me feel powerful - like there's a lot backing up my words

* It's a very comfortable base for my lover

Me, I'm from the Church of Be As You Are and Learn From It. How in heaven's name will you learn the lessons you are here to learn if you surgically alter your Report Card? I have a very strong sense that you don't understand about your body being your Report Card, so let me explain it.

This one Life each of us is experiencing is crafted specifically so that we can unfold an understanding of both ourselves and the world we live in. Einstein was no fool when he named it Relativity. This is a relative experience. It is relative to what you think, because what you think, is precisely what you get. The experience is relative to the thought that precedes it.

The way you think about your body is what creates the appearance of your body. I was told as a baby that I was fat. I believed it. I was a kid. What else could I do? I believed it was true, and began to think it. The propaganda input from diet companies, the medical community, and the media reinforced this idea that I was really, really fat. I thought it even more. I got more fat. Now, I share my own experiences with you because, dear readers, you are doing the same thing.

You are thinking, accepting, and believing that you've got your grandma's wide butt; you'll most likely inherit her diabetes too. You believe the commercials that tell you statistics that you are then supposed to live your life by....with the help of their product, of course. You are thinking your fat firmly into place.

And then the Church of Weight Loss comes along and utterly annihilates the only Report Card that can tell you what mental mistakes you are making so that you can correct them once and for all, permanently, inside yourself without the help of their products. If you buy into the way they think, you've signed your name on the roster of the Church of Weight Loss for the rest of your life.

Just relax and let your body be as it is. It will teach you so much about precisely how you have been thinking. It's only in correcting your thinking that you will get any permanent cure. You might consider joining the Church of Be As You Are and Learn From It. It's been the ultimate blessing in achieving self-love and self-acceptance for my own sweet life.

About the Author:
Pat Matson's passion is spiritual awareness and understanding, acquired in the School of Fat Knocks. Being obese was the catalyst that kept her searching. She shares her novel concepts with other women of size, or women who imagine they are. Her book, workbooks, and teleclasses each more keenly insightful than the next live at The World of Within.
http://www.theworldofwithin.com